FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS
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These are the wedding photos of my grandparents. On the left are my Taiwanese grandparents on my mother's side; on the right are my Japanese grandparents from my father's side. Up until three years ago, I didn't really think about them much. They had died quite some time ago, and I had very few memories of them— if at all. They were in the past and forgotten.
A few years ago, I started learning about Family Constellations, a process created by Bert Hellinger in the late 1970s. This modality is used to look at current personal issues within a larger context, primarily the family system. Working within the experiential "knowing field," participants experience and report the felt sensations of any being they are representing and how the beings are relating to others. This practice acknowledges truths, identifies missing elements or blocks, and moves towards resolution. When 'what has been unseen and unspoken' becomes acknowledged, we can see how the system energetically shifts into alignment. This is what Hellinger describes as The Orders of Love and classifies them into four categories.
As I stepped deeper into constellation work, I became increasingly interested in who my ancestors were, the stories they carried, and began connecting to them. I created a family tree, reached out to my long lost cousins, visited my relatives in Asia despite a language barrier, and paid respect at my grandparents' gravesites. In receiving my own constellations as a client, I discovered that the blocks in my life had been carried or passed down from generations on a unconscious level. Upon noticing where the suffering in my ancestors began, this is where my own healing would begin.
I would like to thank many constellation facilitators whom I have learned from and worked with: Ciara McArdle, Francesca Mason Boring, Sarah Peyton, Gary Stuart, Joanne Chartrand, Dyrian Benz, and Liza Miron. I am especially in gratitude to Leslie Nipps, whom I studied under for the 1:1 Constellations course and Advanced Constellation Training.
Now, photos of my grandparents sit on my home altar. I greet them every morning, honor them, and thank them for their guidance, support, and presence in my current life.
A few years ago, I started learning about Family Constellations, a process created by Bert Hellinger in the late 1970s. This modality is used to look at current personal issues within a larger context, primarily the family system. Working within the experiential "knowing field," participants experience and report the felt sensations of any being they are representing and how the beings are relating to others. This practice acknowledges truths, identifies missing elements or blocks, and moves towards resolution. When 'what has been unseen and unspoken' becomes acknowledged, we can see how the system energetically shifts into alignment. This is what Hellinger describes as The Orders of Love and classifies them into four categories.
- Acknowledging What Is
- Belonging
- Seniority
- Balance of Giving and Taking
- Taking Responsibility and Addressing Transgressions
As I stepped deeper into constellation work, I became increasingly interested in who my ancestors were, the stories they carried, and began connecting to them. I created a family tree, reached out to my long lost cousins, visited my relatives in Asia despite a language barrier, and paid respect at my grandparents' gravesites. In receiving my own constellations as a client, I discovered that the blocks in my life had been carried or passed down from generations on a unconscious level. Upon noticing where the suffering in my ancestors began, this is where my own healing would begin.
I would like to thank many constellation facilitators whom I have learned from and worked with: Ciara McArdle, Francesca Mason Boring, Sarah Peyton, Gary Stuart, Joanne Chartrand, Dyrian Benz, and Liza Miron. I am especially in gratitude to Leslie Nipps, whom I studied under for the 1:1 Constellations course and Advanced Constellation Training.
Now, photos of my grandparents sit on my home altar. I greet them every morning, honor them, and thank them for their guidance, support, and presence in my current life.
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CONSTELLATION EXERCISE:
Connecting with Your Ancestors THURS., JUNE 24, 2021 10 am PST / SAN FRANCISCO 
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Our ancestors survived much hardship, trauma, and tragedies to carry on and bring us life. History, ancient wisdom, and unique gifts have been passed down to us through our lineage. When we connect to our ancestors, we connect to our soul. Our ancestors offer us support, healing, blessings, and guidance.
In this 1.5 hour Zoom constellation exercise, the field will be set up for: you, a healthy ancestor from your mother's lineage, and a healthy ancestor from your father's lineage. This is an opportunity for you to meet your ancestors and create a meaningful connection. |
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OPTIONS CONSTELLATION:
THURS., JULY 1, 2021 10 am PST / SAN FRANCISCO 
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Do I take this job or not? Which school is right for me? Do I relocate? When we are having difficulty making a decision, an "options constellation" helps to see the energy of each choice, how you relate to it, and how the choice relates to you. With the information you receive, you will have a better view of the situation. The field will be set up for: the self, option 1, and option 2. In this 1.5 hour Zoom constellation exercise, all participants take turns being the client and representative. Limited to 4 participants.
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CONSTELLATION EXERCISE:
Body, Mind, Emotions, & Spirit THURS., JULY 8, 2021 10 am PST / SAN FRANCISCO 
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What awareness and connection do you have with your body, mind, emotions, and spirit? Does one dominate more than the other? Are they separated from each other or interconnected? How would you like to hold each of these aspects of yourself in a supportive way?
In this 1.5 hour Zoom constellation exercise, we will focus on the relationship with our mind, body, spirit, and emotions. The field will be set up for: You and your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual body (and how they relate to each other). |
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CONSTELLATION EXERCISE:
Past Life Limitations and Gifts THURS., JULY 15, 2021 10 am PST / SAN FRANCISCO |
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COST One-time drop-in session: USD $22 GOOD TO KNOW Payments are non-refundable. Limited to 4 people. No experience with constellation work is necessary. A private, quiet, uninterrupted space with strong WiFi is essential. No multi-tasking. Have a place to sit and stand with at least a meter of space from the front, back and sides of your body. Come with an open mind and heart. |
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Family constellation is an approach to look at an issue from a deep, energetic level to receive clarity, insight, and peace. We aim for "movement" in the family system which then echoes out and creates change in the frequency / vibration of others involved. This breaks patterns or states that we may be stuck in within ourselves, our relationships, and our lives.
Tammy offers a unique combination of family constellations and channeling over Skype or Zoom. The cost is USD $125—$175 sliding scale for a 1.5—2 hour private session. Please contact me for further information.
Tammy offers a unique combination of family constellations and channeling over Skype or Zoom. The cost is USD $125—$175 sliding scale for a 1.5—2 hour private session. Please contact me for further information.
Tammy is amazing, a true humble healer. From the moment you are in her presence, you feel calm and secure. She guides you on a journey like you have certainly never experienced in Family Constellations, making it easy for you to share and ‘step in’ just how much feels comfortable for you while she holds that safe space. Since our session, I have certainly felt shifts in my life that I attribute to it. I highly recommend everyone to try a session and see what comes up for you. - Lisa Byrd Nesser Chiang Mai, Thailand
