FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS
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These are the wedding photos of my grandparents. On the left are my Taiwanese grandparents on my mother's side; on the right are my Japanese grandparents from my father's side. Up until three years ago, I didn't really think about them much. They had died quite some time ago, and I had very few memories of them— if at all. They were in the past and forgotten.
A few years ago, I started learning about Family Constellations, a process created by Bert Hellinger in the late 1970s. This modality is used to look at current personal issues within a larger context, primarily the family system. Working within the experiential "knowing field," participants experience and report the felt sensations of any being they are representing and how the beings are relating to others. This practice acknowledges truths, identifies missing elements or blocks, and moves towards resolution. When 'what has been unseen and unspoken' becomes acknowledged, we can see how the system energetically shifts into alignment. This is what Hellinger describes as The Orders of Love and classifies them into four categories.
As I stepped deeper into constellation work, I became increasingly interested in who my ancestors were, the stories they carried, and began connecting to them. I created a family tree, reached out to my long lost cousins, visited my relatives in Asia despite a language barrier, and paid respect at my grandparents' gravesites. In receiving my own constellations as a client, I discovered that the blocks in my life had been carried or passed down from generations on a unconscious level. Upon noticing where the suffering in my ancestors began, this is where my own healing started.
I would like to thank many constellation facilitators whom I have learned from and worked with: Ciara McArdle, Francesca Mason Boring, Sarah Peyton, Gary Stuart, Joanne Chartrand, Dyrian Benz, and Liza Miron. I am especially in gratitude to Leslie Nipps, whom I studied under for the 1:1 Constellations course and Advanced Constellation Training.
Now, photos of my grandparents sit on my home altar. I greet them every morning, honor them, and thank them for their guidance, support, and presence in my current life.
A few years ago, I started learning about Family Constellations, a process created by Bert Hellinger in the late 1970s. This modality is used to look at current personal issues within a larger context, primarily the family system. Working within the experiential "knowing field," participants experience and report the felt sensations of any being they are representing and how the beings are relating to others. This practice acknowledges truths, identifies missing elements or blocks, and moves towards resolution. When 'what has been unseen and unspoken' becomes acknowledged, we can see how the system energetically shifts into alignment. This is what Hellinger describes as The Orders of Love and classifies them into four categories.
- Acknowledging What Is
- Belonging
- Seniority
- Balance of Giving and Taking
- Taking Responsibility and Addressing Transgressions
As I stepped deeper into constellation work, I became increasingly interested in who my ancestors were, the stories they carried, and began connecting to them. I created a family tree, reached out to my long lost cousins, visited my relatives in Asia despite a language barrier, and paid respect at my grandparents' gravesites. In receiving my own constellations as a client, I discovered that the blocks in my life had been carried or passed down from generations on a unconscious level. Upon noticing where the suffering in my ancestors began, this is where my own healing started.
I would like to thank many constellation facilitators whom I have learned from and worked with: Ciara McArdle, Francesca Mason Boring, Sarah Peyton, Gary Stuart, Joanne Chartrand, Dyrian Benz, and Liza Miron. I am especially in gratitude to Leslie Nipps, whom I studied under for the 1:1 Constellations course and Advanced Constellation Training.
Now, photos of my grandparents sit on my home altar. I greet them every morning, honor them, and thank them for their guidance, support, and presence in my current life.
CONSTELLATION EXERCISE:
Past Life Limitations and Gifts TBD |
Just like our biological family history shapes us into who we are today, our past lives can give insight to the limitations and gifts that have transcended into our current life. In this 1.5 hour Zoom constellation exercise, the field will be set up for: You (your present self), your past life self, the limitation of your past life, and the gift of your past life. Limited to 4 participants. COST: USD $22
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CONSTELLATION EXERCISE:
The Relationship with Your Self TBD |
Our most important relationship is the relationship with our own self—how we talk to our self, how we view our self, how honest we are with our self, and trusting our own intuition and knowing. When we have a strong connection to our self, we are able to make our own choices; speak our truth; know what our needs are; have healthy boundaries; and not be easily influenced by others. In this 1.5 hour Zoom constellation exercise, the field will be set up for: You and you observing yourself. Limited to 4 participants. COST: USD $25
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Family constellation is an approach to look at an issue from a deep, energetic level to receive clarity, insight, and peace. We aim for "movement" in the family system which then echoes out and creates change in the frequency / vibration of others involved. This breaks patterns or states that we may be stuck in within ourselves, our relationships, and our lives.
Tammy offers a unique combination of family constellations and channeling over Skype or Zoom. The cost is USD $125—$175 sliding scale for a 1.5—2 hour private session. Please contact me for further information.
Tammy offers a unique combination of family constellations and channeling over Skype or Zoom. The cost is USD $125—$175 sliding scale for a 1.5—2 hour private session. Please contact me for further information.
Tammy is amazing, a true humble healer. From the moment you are in her presence, you feel calm and secure. She guides you on a journey like you have certainly never experienced in Family Constellations, making it easy for you to share and ‘step in’ just how much feels comfortable for you while she holds that safe space. Since our session, I have certainly felt shifts in my life that I attribute to it. I highly recommend everyone to try a session and see what comes up for you. - Lisa Byrd Nesser Chiang Mai, Thailand
