FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS
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These are the wedding photos of my grandparents. On the left are my Taiwanese grandparents on my mother's side; on the right are my Japanese grandparents from my father's side. Up until three years ago, I didn't really think about them much. They had died quite some time ago, and I had very few memories of them— if at all. They were in the past and forgotten.
A few years ago, I started learning about Family Constellations, a process created by Bert Hellinger in the late 1970s. This modality is used to look at current personal issues within a larger context, primarily the family system. Working within the experiential "knowing field," participants experience and report the felt sensations of any being they are representing and how the beings are relating to others. This practice acknowledges truths, identifies missing elements or blocks, and moves towards resolution. When 'what has been unseen and unspoken' becomes acknowledged, we can see how the system energetically shifts into alignment. Quantum physics picks up on the change and it travels out to "real time."
Below is what Hellinger describes as The Orders of Love and classifies them into four categories.
As I stepped deeper into constellation work, I became increasingly interested in who my ancestors were, the stories they carried, and began connecting to them. I created a family tree, reached out to my long lost cousins, visited my relatives in Asia despite a language barrier, and paid respect at my grandparents' gravesites. In receiving my own constellations as a client, I discovered that the blocks in my life had been carried or passed down from generations on a unconscious level. Upon noticing where the suffering in my ancestors began, this is where my own healing started.
I would like to thank many constellation facilitators whom I have learned from and worked with: Ciara McArdle, Francesca Mason Boring, Sarah Peyton, Gary Stuart, Joanne Chartrand, Dyrian Benz, and Liza Miron. I am especially in gratitude to Leslie Nipps, whom I studied under for the 1:1 Constellations course and Advanced Constellation Training.
Now, photos of my grandparents sit on my home altar. I greet them every morning, honor them, and thank them for their guidance, support, and presence in my current life.
A few years ago, I started learning about Family Constellations, a process created by Bert Hellinger in the late 1970s. This modality is used to look at current personal issues within a larger context, primarily the family system. Working within the experiential "knowing field," participants experience and report the felt sensations of any being they are representing and how the beings are relating to others. This practice acknowledges truths, identifies missing elements or blocks, and moves towards resolution. When 'what has been unseen and unspoken' becomes acknowledged, we can see how the system energetically shifts into alignment. Quantum physics picks up on the change and it travels out to "real time."
Below is what Hellinger describes as The Orders of Love and classifies them into four categories.
- Acknowledging What Is
- Belonging
- Seniority
- Balance of Giving and Taking
- Taking Responsibility and Addressing Transgressions
As I stepped deeper into constellation work, I became increasingly interested in who my ancestors were, the stories they carried, and began connecting to them. I created a family tree, reached out to my long lost cousins, visited my relatives in Asia despite a language barrier, and paid respect at my grandparents' gravesites. In receiving my own constellations as a client, I discovered that the blocks in my life had been carried or passed down from generations on a unconscious level. Upon noticing where the suffering in my ancestors began, this is where my own healing started.
I would like to thank many constellation facilitators whom I have learned from and worked with: Ciara McArdle, Francesca Mason Boring, Sarah Peyton, Gary Stuart, Joanne Chartrand, Dyrian Benz, and Liza Miron. I am especially in gratitude to Leslie Nipps, whom I studied under for the 1:1 Constellations course and Advanced Constellation Training.
Now, photos of my grandparents sit on my home altar. I greet them every morning, honor them, and thank them for their guidance, support, and presence in my current life.
SERVICES OFFERED: Family Constellations with Channeling
FORMAT: Private Session ONLINE or IN-PERSON in Santa Cruz, California
PRICE: Sliding scale of USD $125—$175 for 2 hours
WHAT TO EXPECT:
The client shares a specific issue to address (for healing or resolution) or something they want clarified. For the client, it'd be like watching a movie, where I would represent different roles. For example, if someone wanted to look at the relationship with himself and his brother, I would alternate 'stepping in' as the client and his brother and report what I'm noticing. When someone has asked me to channel their passed on loved on, the format is slightly different. I would ask you to 'step in' as yourself so that you are able to be in the energy field and communicate with your passed on loved on and feel what is happening. So, instead of watching the movie, you'd be "in the movie" and feeling your true feelings. This can be powerful in being able to hug someone who has passed on, look at them, and talk to them in a soul to soul connection, with our bodies simply as a vessel.
FORMAT: Private Session ONLINE or IN-PERSON in Santa Cruz, California
PRICE: Sliding scale of USD $125—$175 for 2 hours
WHAT TO EXPECT:
The client shares a specific issue to address (for healing or resolution) or something they want clarified. For the client, it'd be like watching a movie, where I would represent different roles. For example, if someone wanted to look at the relationship with himself and his brother, I would alternate 'stepping in' as the client and his brother and report what I'm noticing. When someone has asked me to channel their passed on loved on, the format is slightly different. I would ask you to 'step in' as yourself so that you are able to be in the energy field and communicate with your passed on loved on and feel what is happening. So, instead of watching the movie, you'd be "in the movie" and feeling your true feelings. This can be powerful in being able to hug someone who has passed on, look at them, and talk to them in a soul to soul connection, with our bodies simply as a vessel.
Tammy is amazing, a true humble healer. From the moment you are in her presence, you feel calm and secure. She guides you on a journey like you have certainly never experienced in Family Constellations, making it easy for you to share and ‘step in’ just how much feels comfortable for you while she holds that safe space. Since our session, I have certainly felt shifts in my life that I attribute to it. I highly recommend everyone to try a session and see what comes up for you. - Lisa Byrd Nesser Chiang Mai, Thailand
