Family Constellations
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These are the wedding photos of my grandparents. On the left are my grandparents on my mother's side; on the right are my grandparents from my father's side. Up until three years ago, I didn't really think about them much. They had died quite some time ago, and I had very few memories of them— if at all. They were in the past and forgotten.
I had been curious about constellation work ever since I was asked to be a representative in a workshop that I walked into in Thailand several years ago. I didn't quite understand what it was all about, yet I was intrigued by the process. Over the next few years, I'd occasionally Google to search for any constellation events that I could attend, but I didn't have much luck. Timing finally aligned with a local 5 day intensive in 2017 and just a few weeks away. I remember the first session led by Francesca Mason Boring. When she asked us to welcome our ancestors and acknowledge our grandparents by their name, I was completely caught off-guard. "Aren't they just called Grandma and Grandpa?" I sat with embarrassment not knowing such a basic detail, yet it simply showed a detachment from my family relations and roots.
As my fascination with constellations grew, so did the interest in my ancestors. I created a family tree, reconnected to my cousins, visited my relatives in Japan and Taiwan despite a language barrier, and paid respect at my grandparents' gravesites. I attended workshops with facilitators Ciara McArdle, Leslie Nipps, Sarah Peyton, Gary Stuart, Joanne Chartrand and Dyrian Benz, and Liza Miron. I learned how this process, created by Bert Hellinger in the late 1970s, is used as a powerful and profound tool for healing, insight, and clarity. Working within a form of quantum physics referred to as the "knowing field," participants can accurately experience and report the felt sensations of any being and how beings are relating to others. This practice acknowledges truths, identifies missing elements or blocks, and moves towards resolution. When what has been unseen is now included, we can see how the system energetically shifts into alignment. What has been carried or passed down from generations into our own patterns can now be respectfully released.
Now, photos of my grandparents sit on my home altar. I greet them every morning, ask them for their blessings and to keep me safe and protected. When I need support, I ask for their guidance. Like a network that is interconnected, they are with me, and I am with them.
I had been curious about constellation work ever since I was asked to be a representative in a workshop that I walked into in Thailand several years ago. I didn't quite understand what it was all about, yet I was intrigued by the process. Over the next few years, I'd occasionally Google to search for any constellation events that I could attend, but I didn't have much luck. Timing finally aligned with a local 5 day intensive in 2017 and just a few weeks away. I remember the first session led by Francesca Mason Boring. When she asked us to welcome our ancestors and acknowledge our grandparents by their name, I was completely caught off-guard. "Aren't they just called Grandma and Grandpa?" I sat with embarrassment not knowing such a basic detail, yet it simply showed a detachment from my family relations and roots.
As my fascination with constellations grew, so did the interest in my ancestors. I created a family tree, reconnected to my cousins, visited my relatives in Japan and Taiwan despite a language barrier, and paid respect at my grandparents' gravesites. I attended workshops with facilitators Ciara McArdle, Leslie Nipps, Sarah Peyton, Gary Stuart, Joanne Chartrand and Dyrian Benz, and Liza Miron. I learned how this process, created by Bert Hellinger in the late 1970s, is used as a powerful and profound tool for healing, insight, and clarity. Working within a form of quantum physics referred to as the "knowing field," participants can accurately experience and report the felt sensations of any being and how beings are relating to others. This practice acknowledges truths, identifies missing elements or blocks, and moves towards resolution. When what has been unseen is now included, we can see how the system energetically shifts into alignment. What has been carried or passed down from generations into our own patterns can now be respectfully released.
Now, photos of my grandparents sit on my home altar. I greet them every morning, ask them for their blessings and to keep me safe and protected. When I need support, I ask for their guidance. Like a network that is interconnected, they are with me, and I am with them.
Private sessions
Tammy offers 1:1 private family constellations over Skype or Zoom. The cost is USD $65 for a 1.5 hour session. Please contact us for further information.
Group sessions
Tammy is amazing, a true humble healer. From the moment you are in her presence, you feel calm and secure. She guides you on a journey like you have certainly never experienced in Family Constellations, making it easy for you to share and ‘step in’ just how much feels comfortable for you while she holds that safe space. Since our session, I have certainly felt shifts in my life that I attribute to it. I highly recommend everyone to try a session and see what comes up for you. - Lisa Byrd Nesser Chiang Mai, Thailand
